I know there has been a lot of discussion in class surrounding the issue of the residents mistrusting us at Abbey Court. I realize that we all have great intentions when giving our time and energy to the residents and that it is difficult when we do not receive a lot of participation with soccer and other activities at Abbey Court, due in part because we haven’t completely gained their trust. However, we must take a step back and look through the lenses of the residents in order to realize where they are coming from, how many things they have been through, and the persecution they receive daily from society. I believe French essayist Joseph Joubert said it best when he stated, “We must respect the past, and mistrust the present, if we wish to provide for the safety of the future.” After all the deceit some of these residents have experienced, they have reason to trust our intentions are of merit, especially not in the few months that center has been there. They are simply looking out for what is best for themselves and their families. I believe the best we can do is to continue to respect the residents of Abbey Court and give them all the time they need to warm up to us. In time, and through time only, is trust built.
-Terrence Bogans
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I completely agree with this post.
ReplyDeleteFor those of you who were not present for the last session of soccer this past Sunday, the people there really opened up to us. We had a game of soccer going, and thought the residents were timid and didn't join us, we inspired them to start their own game directly next to us. Furthermore, we had a semi-big group of students, residents and their children sitting under a tree in the shade. I did my best to translate for both parties since the residents spoke little English and my friends are more versed in French. Eventually kids started coming out and biking and then before I knew it, the entire grassy patch behind building F was filled with child's laughter. More mothers came out and I saw people peaking their heads out the window to watch us. It was a lot of fun and I wish this had been something all of you could have experienced. I'm excited to see the progress of the Fall class next semester.